Relationship: 3 Qualities Of A Good Man - How to Identify a Good Man


A man is not a good man for the things he possesses but for the good qualities he has acquired overtime. All men are the same, most Nigerian ladies do say there is no good man in Nigeria, on the other hand, some believe there is a good Nigerian man somewhere for them but they are hard to find.
"A Good man is hard to find"
Well, this statement is true to some extent, but hey! a good Nigerian man is easy to find. When you are in search for a good man check out these attributes; a brain, a heart, and courage. Let me explain.


A Brain
The first attribute of a good man is that he has a brain. In other words, he’s astute, judicious, and intelligent; he can think for himself and for those who surround him, his actions are not dictated by his friends, mother, father or his associates. He possesses the cognitive ability to recognize your importance and see your true value. He’s smart enough to appreciate you, and intelligent enough to show it. He’s a visionary; he knows what he’s doing and where he’s going. He’s a leader; he’s able to handle his responsibilities; he’s able to control himself, his anger, and his nature, in other words, he has a brain.

A Heart
The second quality of a good man is that he has a heart. Some men are cold, they’re callous and they’re mean. They don’t feel anything, don’t care about anything, don’t care if you cry, don’t care when you hurt, they are uninterested in the things that you are interested in; your feelings mean “nothing,” they don’t have a heart!
A man “with a heart” is concerned about you, takes an interest in the things that interest you, and prizes you above anyone else. A man with a heart will spend time with you, because he knows that time is a sign of value. What people value they dedicate time to. A good man has a heart. A man with a heart defers to you, respects your emotions, your feelings and your perspective. A man with a heart is not intimated by your intelligence, intuition and sensitivity; he understands you and relies on you. A man with a heart respects his parents, his neighbors and most importantly, a man with a heart respects the women he’s with.

Courage
The third sign of a good man is courage. He has courage in the face of circumstances, challenges and misunderstandings. He doesn’t quit or shrink, he doesn’t run-out, and he doesn’t give up or back down when things get rough; he has courage. He has the courage to stay committed to relationships, the courage to make big decisions, and the courage to back his decisions. He has the courage to change when change is required. He has the courage to take risk, the courage to pursue his dreams, the courage to love the unlovely, and the courage to do the right thing. He has the courage to commit to you for a lifetime, the courage to respect you, the courage to protect you, the courage to earn a living, the courage to pursue his passion and the courage to be the man that you desire him to be.

Conclusion
In conclusion, a good man has a brain, he has a heart, courage and last but not least, a good man has carry God along in whatever he choose to pursue. If God is missing, it dosen't matter how much brain, how pure his heart is or how courageous he is, he is not a good man indeed.



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